What's up, my withces?

Let’s talk about love. I don’t mean the head over heels about another person kind of love, what I want to talk about is self-love. You know that thing we all claim to do but probably neglect from time to mine? Yeah that one! I was doing my usual thing. Scrolling through insta whilst binge watching Gavin and Stacey when this sudden overwhelming self hatred came over my body. I had a burst of motivation to get into some gym gear and go on a 5 mile run (Of course making sure I post a selfie to prove I actually did it, it doesn’t really count if you don’t!) Then I thought to myself what is self-love anyways? Well I wanted to write my own version. You’ve heard it before but it really does come from within. Losing a few pounds won’t really make me any happier If I’m honest. What Instagram doesn’t tell you about being happy with yourself is that sometimes it’s incredibly difficult! One type of self love we don’t do enough is go to therapy. That’s been a life changer for me personally. Acknowledging my own habits and behaviours was the hardest but most revolutionising thing I’ve ever done! So when you’re sat on your phone scrolling (like we all do) feeling pretty God damn shitty, remember life isn’t always rainbows and sunshine. Just because these influencers look happy doesn’t mean they don’t suffer. We all think we have flaws (even Tammy Hembrow I’m sure!!) so don’t beat yourself up or think exercising till your out of breath is the only way to take care of yourself. Here’s some options for you; 1. Take a meditation class 2. Facetime a few of your friends 3. Watch your fave Netflix series 4. Have a good old cry 5. Delete social media for a while Loving yourself isn’t fixable with one run and it certainly isn’t always fun. Ease off the pressure. You’ve got this. My Boss Witch is acknowledging sometimes feeling like shit is normal and recognising that terrible feeling is incredibly healthy. Letting my emotions be. That’s my superpower.

Hello, nice to meet you. My name is Heidi, I’m 22 years old. I come from Kent. After scrolling through Instagram and (yet again) feeling rather frustrated at the false presumptions and misleading information I wanted to rant. You probably think it’s easier to head to the comment section and start a war, but the problem is the comment section is full of trolls and for one of a better word, idiots. I’ve seen a few posts on here that have made me feel comfortable with finding my voice on an online platform (Guilty feminist 101 gave me a push to speak up!) I am a feminist and trans activist, but often I feel like I don’t do enough. Well, here’s the first step. I’ve came on today to inform you of 5 myths you’ve probably heard about trans people; 1. Trans people have to pass as cis to be valid. Trans people do not have to do anything to be valid, let’s get that one straight. 2. Being trans is a mental illness. I’m sorry what? Trans people are fully aware of what they need with regards to gender. Affirming healthcare. 3. “Trans children are medically transitioning which is dangerous as they might regret it!” No children are medically transitioning. This is not happening. Transition rates are low with less than 1% in international studies. 4. There are only 2 genders and therefore only 2 types of people. Gender is a spectrum! There are infinite ways to experience gender. Everyone has their own unique experiences. Non- binary trans people exist! 5. Transgender people are a threat to cis people. comical. Transgender people are often targeted by cis people. More than 4 in 5 young trans people have experienced name calling or verbal abuse. Transpeople are human beings who deserve support and respect. This post was essential and I already feel better, I must confess. The constant misinformation on trans people can be so hurtful and is often aimed at spreading hate. Let’s turn that on its head and support each other instead! Rant over, who’s next???

Hi huns! Lilly here. I’m 24 and from Newcastle Upon Tyne (yes I have a very strong geordie accent!) I came across The Witching Hour on Instagram a couple of days ago. When I saw The Coven section I was so happy to finally see a community page that seemed genuine and realistic. You don’t have to know anything and EVERYTHING about feminism to join in on the fun. I must say, Boss Witch got me intrigued. I’m all about self-love (In fact I probably post one too many selfies...) so this forum seemed right up my street. I recently just started taking up skate boarding and in September 2019 took part in a local competition. I already know what you’re thinking, a girl, skate boarding? Yeah I get that all the time and it can be a bit frustrating, but I love it nonetheless. The competition was, as you’d imagine, full of men but that didn’t stop me from coming second place (out of 50)! I wanted to write this because often I feel girls don’t realise their potential. These hidden talents we have are made to be explored and if it wasn’t for me facing the fear and intimidation I felt, I wouldn’t of even entered that competition, let alone get a prize. Boss witch can help us build each other up, no matter yow small or large the achievement is. There is no competition here, only support. I wanted to start this discussion to get the ball rolling, what have you achieved that you’re proud of? Even if it’s just going for a walk during coronavirus. I want to hear it!